When our children were very small,
I started to write down a few things about what happened
every day. Let me tell you how that got started. I came home
late from a Church assignment. It was after dark. My
father-in-law, who lived near us, surprised me as I walked
toward the front door of my house. He was carrying a load of
pipes over his shoulder, walking very fast and dressed in
his work clothes. I knew that he had been building a system
to pump water from a stream below us up to our property.
He smiled, spoke softly, and then
rushed past me into the darkness to go on with his work. I
took a few steps toward the house, thinking of what he was
doing for us, and just as I got to the door, I heard in my
mind—not in my own voice—these words: “I’m not giving you
these experiences for yourself. Write them down.”
I went inside. I didn’t go to
bed. Although I was tired, I took out some paper and began
to write. And as I did, I understood the message I had heard
in my mind. I was supposed to record for my children to
read, someday in the future, how I had seen the hand of God
blessing our family. Grandpa didn’t have to do what he was
doing for us. He could have had someone else do it or not
have done it at all. But he was serving us, his family, in
the way covenant disciples of Jesus Christ always do. I knew
that was true. And so I wrote it down, so that my children
could have the memory someday when they would need it.
I wrote down a few lines every
day for years. I never missed a day no matter how tired I
was or how early I would have to start the next day. Before
I would write, I would ponder this question: “Have I seen
the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or
our family today?” As I kept at it, something began to
happen. As I would cast my mind over the day, I would see
evidence of what God had done for one of us that I had not
recognized in the busy moments of the day. As that happened,
and it happened often, I realized that trying to remember
had allowed God to show me what He had done.
More than gratitude began to
grow in my heart. Testimony grew. I became ever more certain
that our Heavenly Father hears and answers prayers. I felt
more gratitude for the softening and refining that come
because of the Atonement of the Savior Jesus Christ. And I
grew more confident that the Holy Ghost can bring all things
to our remembrance—even things we did not notice or pay
attention to when they happened.
The years have gone by. My boys
are grown men. And now and then one of them will surprise me
by saying, “Dad, I was reading in my copy of the journal
about when . . . ” and then he will tell me about how
reading of what happened long ago helped him notice
something God had done in his day.
My point is to urge you to find
ways to recognize and remember God’s kindness. It will build
our testimonies. You may not keep a journal. You may not
share whatever record you keep with those you love and
serve. But you and they will be blessed as you remember what
the Lord has done. You remember that song we sometimes sing:
“Count your many blessings; name them one by one, And it
will surprise you what the Lord has done.”